Random thoughts that cross my mind

• What ‘I’ want to be is very different from what ‘I am’, which is apparently VERY different from what ‘my parents’ want me to be. This ultimately results in everybody being disappointed. How many of us feel this?

• Whenever we fall into a relationship, we always try to compare that person with the best person you have ever met. Like, every girl WILL compare her lover with the best man she has ever met (It could be her dad, her first crush, or even the man whom she admires.)

• Until and unless we are about to lose something, we’ll never realize its value. This is because we all have this tendency to be very comfortable with the things and people around us. We get used it/them. We all want them/it, but never value it. And then at the nth minute, we desperately try not to lose it, but most of the times, all in vain!

• The amount of closeness with any person is ALWAYS directly proportional to the amount of expectations you have from the person. No matter how much you try to change it, it still remains as the fact.

• People are much more sensitive than you think they are. Sometimes they get hurt by trivial things you say. I wish they understand that the same things happen with others too.

• Some of us think that the problems that we have, are much greater than others’. And the some people include ALL of us.

• There is nothing worse that can happen, than waiting for someone whom you’ve been dying to meet, and after waiting for more than an hour, that person calls you up and says, that he won’t be able to make it.

• Certain smells or scents can take you way back in time.

• Has it ever happened to you, that you smile at somebody, the smile remains on your face, and a stranger thinks that you are smiling at him? Well, it does happen with me a number of times.

• You like a book, a movie or a story more, when you can relate something in them to yourself. A situation, a character, a feeling, it could be anything.

• NOT telling unpleasant truth and telling harmless lies are always forgiven by God.

• If something has to happen, it WILL happen, no matter how much you try to stop it. I believe in ‘Signs by God’ and follow where the situation takes me to.

• Experience is something which can be attained with time. You can’t hurry up to gain experience.

• Sometimes we are much comfortable, speaking up openly with a stranger than our friends. Mainly because, they have no pre-framed image of yours that you fear, will get spoilt. When it comes to a stranger, there is no ‘What-will-he-think-about-me’ thing in mind.

• Some pains are sweet. As time passes, we don’t always remember it. But nor do we forget them completely.

• Regret is an inevitable part of life. It could be because ‘I should have done it’ or ‘I shouldn’t have done it’. But most of us, DO regret, about one thing or the other.

• Human mind is the MOST complex of the things that has ever happened. They do not follow a pattern, they are completely unpredictable, every entity is very different from the others, and the same mind behaves differently under different scenarios. One of the carefully weaved creations of God, I must say!!